Keď nič nie je dosť dobré
O slovenskej schopnosti zameniť úsudok za kyslosť, skromnosť za brzdu a kritické myslenie za potrebu zmenšiť každého, kto sa trochu narovná.
O slovenskej schopnosti zameniť úsudok za kyslosť, skromnosť za brzdu a kritické myslenie za potrebu zmenšiť každého, kto sa trochu narovná.
Rape survived modesty, long dresses, petticoats, church clothes, marriage vows, family reputations, and every era that pretended women could dress their way into safety.
Not every erasure arrives as a ban. Sometimes it arrives as silence, lowered reach, invisible suspicion, and the slow training of a woman to soften herself.
On streaming, inherited nostalgia, and the strange danger of beautiful surfaces
A small essay on gratitude, independence, curiosity, and why writing needs somewhere safe to stay.
On Mother’s Day, I think about my mother not only as the woman who raised me, but as a daughter shaped by daughters before her.
Some people do not object to your thinking because it is excessive. They object because it has started connecting the moments they needed you to keep separate.
In a culture that can imitate sincerity beautifully, I no longer trust the performance of authenticity. I trust memory, boundaries, and what remains over time.
O sociálnej únave, vine z nedostupnosti a vzťahoch, ktoré vedia uniesť aj našu menšiu kapacitu.
Soon we will not pay for luxury. We will pay for the basic conditions of feeling human.
O mužoch, ktorí obdivujú ženskú sebavedomosť iba dovtedy, kým sa neobráti proti ich vlastnej istote.
We inherited more freedom than almost any generation before us, and somehow learned to explain our avoidance so beautifully that it almost looks like wisdom.
proving that absence can still hold a kind of presence
Some people do not misunderstand you because they know too little. They misunderstand you because they think they know enough.
Slovak
Nie o odkladaní vecí, ale o tom, že nie všetko musíš riešiť hneď, aby sa to pohlo
When everything becomes clear, nothing feels fully lived.
And sociology was the only place where that choice made sense.
Nie każda cisza jest taka sama. Niektóre uczą cię wracać do siebie.
What survives online is not what is true, but what is compatible
Slovak
Napätie ostáva, pravda sa zjemní a všetko ide ďalej — presne tak, aby sa nič nemuselo zmeniť.
We measure ourselves by numbers that come from moments nobody remembers.
Slovak
Nie preto, že by sme sa zmenili. Ale preto, že sa zmenilo, čo funguje.
We removed the need to lie about it
What constant visibility quietly replaces — and why it never turns into real connection.